Well, I don't call that either laziness or Aspergers. I call that lack of responsibility. I have chores I have to do every day, and If I don't get them done that day, I have them the next day, plus whatever I would've had regularly. Which, I might add, sucks ass when we've just had Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner.
But I love things being organized. Despite the fact that my room has clothes all over it, pretty much everything else is perfectly organized. Needs dusted off, but it's organized. If I had time to clean it up more, I would, but I don't with some of the things I've had to do.
And as far as dishes go, if you don't want to wash them, eat finger food, or use styrofoam or, more environmentally preferred, paper plates and bowls and such. As an adult you are obligated to keep your property clean and sanitized, and that includes keeping eating material clean. Especially. And even more so if theres some sort of a pandemic going around. Know of any like that? If not, I'll give you a hint:
Sometimes, there's things in life that you don't want to do, but you have to do them. Nobody really likes
to clean. But it's a neccesity.